Oh darling don't you ever grow up...............

At what point does one become an adult and when do you start acting like one :) Here is my theory......... with every event that you experience with every mountain that you are face with you continually gain experience and knowledge and do the best you can in every situation and thus you learn the good roads and the bad roads and how you can improve next time. Being an adult doesn't mean that you have all your stuff together it means that you lived and you learned and you know how to face a situation head on and take care of the things that need to be taken care of because you have experience and a little confidence in yourself. I have some who say that I am still naive and immature at life and I say you are right. I know there is a lot that I have to learn and experience but at the same time you did too at my age and why pass judgment on adults of my age when you know that everyday is a new experience and a new lesson to learn and we do the best the can with what we got and try to go to bed without regrets and tell ourselves tomorrow is another and new day and we will give the same 150 percent we gave yesterday. I can tell you some adults in their 50s or 60s who are still not adults and what does that mean?? they never learn from the mistakes and keep making them and not trying to better themselves. I think at times that we wish that (like the taylor swift song) we had someone to clean up our messes or even to hold us when the world seems to have turned against us but the bottom line is you live and learn and you keep your head up :) Do the best with you got and keep moving :)